There will be a lot of posts soon with people sharing how much they achieve in 2023. But, in case someone needs to hear this... It's okay if the only thing you did this year was get through it.
Remember that not everyone is going to be holly & jolly all season. People are grieving, financially stressed, burnt out, doing the best they can. Holidays are a tough time of the year for a lot of people & you never know what someone else is going through.
The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything; conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for, whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes. It is what it is.