No puedo creer que haya gente que crea que tener hijos es una carga en vez de una bendición 🥺 cuando literalmente has creado un 50% tuyo y un 50% de la persona a la que amas
Mm. A lot of men use “friendship” as a cover to rehearse contempt for women. They package disrespect as jokes, honesty, or brotherly banter, and too many women accept it bc they’ve been taught tenderness only belongs in romance. Respect should be baseline, not bf-exclusive.
Again, there’s no such thing as a perfect person or a soulmate. You’re both coming from different family backgrounds and life experiences.
So Just find someone with strong family values, who is willing to stay committed, put in the effort to understand you, and grow with you through everything instead of walking away at every challenge.
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.
Nerd men are the best because they have actual interests and hobbies outside of lusting over women.
The same way women should decenter men, men should also decenter women.
If only bw stopped hyping up darkskinned black males and worshipping black males in general, the concept of lightskin = feminine, and darkskin = masculine wouldn't exist.
We have hideous darkskinned niggaboons saying shi like this and getting zero pushback.
The real flex is keeping a good heart when life gives you reasons not to. When you’ve been lied to, used, switched up on and counted out but you still show love. You still got loyalty in you. You show up for people. That’s rare and powerful.
when in a relationship understand that you were both raised differently, which means you love differently, react differently & communicate differently, the important part is that you both respect eachothers differences & try to understand where one another is coming from.