tracy thomas

Mum, wife, a proud NHS Oncology Nurse and an Evertonian Views are my own

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@widow_waiting @CruseSupport How many times I’ve been asked can they speak to my hubbie, even though I told them, he’s dead😢

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@widow_waiting Sad admin is tough, good idea with solicitor. I am 18 mths down with grief, thought I had sorted all our admin,,, final straw was the damn ring doorbell. You could not write this crap. Got to wait 3 weeks for ring doorbell to be transferred to my ownership. Does this ever end😤😤

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@SaffronKim I am 16 months with this horrible grief, I find the brain fog, insomnia, horrendous

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@lizziecahill76 Thanks Lizzie, support appreciated x

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@snellyradio Have ya started the xmas food cupboard. Food to be untouched till xmas🤣

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@widow_waiting You need to rest, take help from friends. Each day is different. I wish I could say it gets better soon, its just different. I’m 15 months into this shitshow of grief, I have days that are good, and days I can’t leave the house. Thinking of you 💙

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@widow_waiting @kelleyiskelley This is so true

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@SuddenWidow I’m sitting here crying reading your tweet, listening to my hubbies voice messages, so precious to me. When does it get easier, and the physical pain goes. Fucking hate grief

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@widow_waiting We had talked about a cruise, My daughter and I done this in the Summer. We were both anxious, first trip without hubbie. We had a lovely time, it helped our confidence. We are planning on doing the trips we talked about. When your ready, this will come.

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@widow_waiting As people have mentioned its such a rollercoaster, for months I just felt safe at home. Today I sobbed in the car, just thinking of my hubbie. There is a lot of “fuck it” days, just be kind to yourself. Xx

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@widow_waiting It was my teenage daughter, kept me going on, keeping to her routine. Otherwise I would have just stayed in bed. We are 15 months since my hubbie died, the first 12 months, I was totally stunned. Take each day as it comes, be kind to yourself x

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@widow_waiting Been thinking of you, all our 💕

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@widow_waiting Peoples perception, is crap, my words, just F—k off🥊

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@HandbookWidows @Skentelbery Definitely listening to this, wish I paid more attention to “You need to know how to work the heating”.

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@SuddenWidow Miss the chat, it could be absolute nonsense, but it was our nonsense. Were 15 months without my hubbie, I am still waiting for this rawness to go. I am very much with you💙💙

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@AndyBurnhamGM This has to be a joke

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@widow_waiting It took us 6 moths to sort my late husbands estate, companies kept asking could they speak to him!!! mobile phone companies and utilities were horrendous

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@lizziecahill76 Have a fab day, hope it goes quick x

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@Everton Thank you, xx

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@AndyBurnhamGM @MetroMayorSteve You missed future Prime Ministers, either one would sort out this mess