If your partner (husband or wife) cheats on you, you have the right to step away from the relationship or reconcile. Any church/ leader or religious institution that makes you feel like going through divorce is means you failed is unhealthy.
If you disclose any form of abuse to your church counselling team or Pastor and they encourage you to stay. Leave that church!! God does not condone abuse.
If you are wrestling with depression and any form of mental illness. Go and see a professional not your Pastor or church. Letโs stay in our respective lanes. Nothing wrong with going to church for spiritual nourishment but for issues of the mind or body- go see a professional
The beauty of the Bible is that those who would usually be overlooked, unseen and deemed insignificant are the ones God wrote into His story. Many of these individuals were women and I love how they had the greatest encounters with God which became lessons to thousands today.
If you require marriage counselling , I encourage you to see someone outside of your church. I have seen marriages fall apart from sharing sensitive information to those in such close proximity to them.
If you keep silent long enough, your enemies will expose themselves. God will shine a strong light on those around you and hidden motives will be revealed. For whatever we do in the dark always comes out in the light.
Any church that focuses on what a Pastor says more than on what Jesus lived and said is a cult. Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth. If you have left the church, remain as part of the body of Christ. Continue to follow the guiding hand and words of Jesus.
Christianity is not about control, censorship or pride. God is not judging you by your worst days and moral failures. Instead, He has enabled you through Holy Sprit to live a life of fulfilled joy, peace and purpose. Itโs about living a life fully โseenโ by your first love.
A few months ago a well respected Christian told me it would be better for me to dead than to "come out". I took that advice and thew it in the blood of Jesus. Nothing can separate me or you from the love of Christ. If you are part of the LGBTQIA+, you are loved by your Father.
If any church leaders name any women " Jezebel" because they have disclosed sexual assault/abuse at the hands of a church member and leader, leave that church. They do not share the values of our Lord Jesus Christ.
โI am my ancestors wildest dreams. I will continue to evolve and walk in the divine favour and blessing of the Lord. Everyone who comes into contact with me will have the urge to open doors for me. The divine flow and synergy of heaven is on my side.โ Traidy Naidoo
You are not lazy or unmotivated. After years of being in survival mode and โbeing the strong oneโ, you are simply exhausted.
I encourage you to take time off, rest and rejuvenate.
Wishing you a blessed week ahead๐