Being alone when I really needed help changed me forever. It showed me not to expect too much from nobody and not to keep thinking people gon show up the way I would. I learned how to figure stuff out on my own, keep going without asking, and stay quiet about a lot of what I be dealing with. That’s why I move different now. I still got love for people, but I don’t expect nothing from them. Once life show you what it’s like to really have nobody but yourself, you start depending on you different.
Your entire nervous system relaxes when your finances are in order. Most anxiety is not a mental health problem. It is a cash flow problem. Fix the money first.
i really cannot be friends with you if you only been popping since last night every and any man that compliments you makes you go feral and talk about the interaction for hours on end like please enough
i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.
I love New York women and I love being a woman from New York. Our demeanor is in the way that we talk, the way that we walk, and the way that we carry ourselves. Those that get it just get it. And if you don’t you’re just not for us. Simple.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.