i love this. seeing successful women with great careers, financially independent, thriving and spoiling themselves makes me so happy. everything i aspire to be.
stop looking for an attractive partner. you should find someone who has the mindset of achieving his/her dreams no matter what happens. someone with good plans in future. someone who values education. someone who will teach you right and educate you well. remember, life is full of lessons, you should find your best tutor.
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone.
I might get attacked for this but if your man ain’t buying you expensive hair and bags .. but he’s still opening doors, making sure you eat, pulling out a chair for you, massaging your feet from a tired day, calming you down when you have anxiety, rubbing your back when you have cramps, holding you when you’re down, being honest, not cheating, being respectful and etc., You won! That's also princess treatment right there.
My mom said "stick w the guy that loves u, not the guy u love. Bc the guy that loves u will go to the end of the earth for u, but the guy u love will only love you on his terms." She's always said a woman can grow to love someone but a man either loves u from the start or doesn't
Just wait for the paint to dry, then paint that end.
Moral lesson: If you wait to understand how to finish, you may never begin. Just start, you'll figure it out along the way.