Nothing in my own parenting journey has radicalized me as much as the potty training subreddit. It is absolutely chock-FILLED with posts every day from parents who are like: "help! my kid is four and still not potty trained! i've tried nothing and i'm all out of ideas"
i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really