The #1 issue in most black homes is that children don’t have a voice. No one ever gets the child side of the story, & the parents never apologize when they are wrong. This impacts all of us into adulthood bcuz we were never taught conflict resolution, encouraged to speak up & to articulate our feelings. Anytime I see a parent arguing with their child, I know 💯 that child has a story to tell but no one will listen to them. Just bcuz u r the parent doesn’t mean you’re always right & your child’s feelings are always invalid! How you treat your child in their younger years will determine if they come around you in their adult years. #HOLDPARENTSACCOUNTABLE
i hate when i get so overwhelmed with what’s going on around me i start unintentionally being mean. it’s my biggest ick about myself like calm down ms. attitude.