You have to fall in love with her in different versions. The young her, the tired her, the pregnant her, the ambitious her, the difficult her, the woman she becomes with time. That’s the real secret.
Y’all get cheated on so dmnn much that y'all started normalizing it... "every ngga gon cheat" whole time it's a MAN out here that won't even look a btch way cause he got a WOMAN/YOU
Being in a relationship means you must love someone the way they need you to, not just in the way that is comfortable for you. Because it's a reminder that love is not only about what I prefer giving, it's also about how the other person actually receives it. Real love takes effort, emotional maturity, and the willingness to meet each other halfway, not just show up when it feels easy.
to every woman that needs to hear this: there are good men out there. Men who listen instead of dismissing you. Men who take accountability, communicate, apologize, and make you feel safe, seen & appreciated. You're worthy of healthy love, and it's out there. Don't settle 🥺