Leaf insects, also known as walking leaves, are masters of camouflage
Their bodies mimic leaves in incredible detail, complete with veins, curves, and even spots that resemble damage
There is a story about two wolves that live inside every human being. One wolf carries anger, pride, envy, bitterness, selfishness and destruction. The other carries peace, discipline, compassion, wisdom, patience and truth. Every single day, both wolves compete for dominance within us. The frightening part is that many people spend their lives pretending only one wolf exists.
The older i get, the more i realise that human beings are not simply “good” or “bad.” We are a combination of both. Some of us just become better at hiding the darker parts of ourselves. The same person capable of deep love can also become deeply cruel when wounded. The same mouth that speaks life can destroy another person in seconds when consumed by anger. Self awareness begins when you stop seeing yourself as incapable of becoming the very thing you criticise in others.
Many people think feeding the good wolf means posting motivational quotes, acting spiritual in public or appearing kind when people are watching. But the real test happens privately. It is in the moments where jealousy enters your heart and you decide not to entertain it. It is when revenge feels satisfying but you choose restraint. It is when life hardens you but you still refuse to become bitter. Character is not built in comfort. It is revealed in conflict.
One thing i have noticed is that pain feeds wolves very quickly. Rejection, betrayal, poverty, disappointment and trauma can either deepen your wisdom or deform your soul. Some people suffer and become softer toward humanity because they understand pain. Others suffer and become consumed with resentment, projecting their wounds onto innocent people. Pain itself is not what destroys people. Lack of healing does.
Social media has also made it easier for people to constantly feed the wrong wolf without noticing. Outrage is rewarded. Mockery trends faster than empathy. Pride is mistaken for confidence and cruelty is now disguised as honesty. People are gradually normalising emotional emptiness while calling it strength. But no matter how polished hatred looks on the outside, it still destroys the person carrying it first.
What makes this story powerful is the understanding that feeding a wolf is not a one time decision. It is daily. Every conversation, every habit, every environment and every thought is feeding something within you. Your mind becomes what you repeatedly expose it to. If you continuously feed anger, comparison and negativity, eventually they begin to shape your personality. The same applies to discipline, gratitude, wisdom and emotional control.
At some point in life, all of us must sit down honestly with ourselves and ask: “Which wolf have i been feeding?” Not the version people see online. Not the image carefully created for public approval. The real version of you that exists in silence. Because eventually, whatever wolf you feed in private becomes the life you live in public.
Dear Frank Edoho, this is a financial and life advisory from someone who has been watching.
First, the school fees, the properties, the years of provision, the emotional labour, all of that is gone and it is not coming back, mourn it for exactly 30 days, after that it becomes a tuition fee for the most expensive masterclass in human character assessment you will ever attend, file it under education and move forward.
Second, you are 57 years old, still handsome, still distinguished, still employed, still relevant, still the man who made “is that your final answer” a cultural moment in Nigerian television history. The woman who left that did not leave because you were not enough, she left because some people confuse a blessing for an entitlement, that is her problem now, not yours.
Third, your next investment will not be in a woman who needs building, you have already built two complete human beings from scratch with your resources, your time, and your emotional capacity. Going forward you are only investing in something that already has equity, no fixer upper projects or rehabilitation contracts, you are not NNPC and you cannot afford another turnaround maintenance scam.
Fourth, separate your finances permanently and structurally, whatever you own going forward carries your name only until a relationship has proven itself over years not months, love is beautiful but a joint account requires the same due diligence as a business partnership….which it literally is.
Fifth, the woman making noise publicly right now naming people and building a victim narrative is doing you a favour you have not recognised yet. She is showing everyone watching exactly who she is without you having to say a single word, your silence is not weakness Frank, your silence is evidence, let it speak.
Sixth, stop falling in love with potential, you are a television professional, you understand production, you know the difference between a pilot episode and a complete series, stop funding pilots that never make it to season two.
Now the most important advice of all.
Come back to television, but not with a quiz show this time, Nigeria has moved past multiple choice questions, we are living in an era of N800 billion missing from FAAC, senators buying tax clearance like recharge cards, a Budget Office that has gone silent on the biggest budget in history, and a government that travels the world giving speeches about transparency while accountability stays at home.
Come back with a current affairs programme, sharp, structured, uncomfortable, the kind of show where powerful people sweat under studio lights and ordinary Nigerians get the questions actually answered, hosted by a man who has already survived two public storms with his dignity completely intact, which means nobody can threaten him, blackmail him, or buy him with a land allocation.
Nigeria needs a broadcaster who has nothing left to lose and everything to say, and after what you have been through Frank, that man is you.
The show writes itself, the audience is already waiting, and this time when you ask the question, we will not be thinking about the money.
We will be thinking about the answer.
Is that your final answer Frank?
Make it count this time.
This is how my lovely wife and I practice our marriage.
I don't know of any other marriage that would produce a better result than this one.
You Gen Zs need proper mentorship and guidance.
Your iberibe is too much.
Someone will soon come under this to give AI comment.
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In all she said, she didn't admit whether she slept with Chike or not.
But went talking about all Frank did and did not do and painted herself a victim in all ramifications.
The only thing I want to say is this, and l picked it up from what she said.
You cannot publicly shame a man for cheating and you'd draw sympathy.
But you can publicly shame him for not providing, and you'd attract public sympathy.
Which is exactly what she did, and which is what I would expect Frank to debunk, if he so chooses to.
The rest is her just playing to the gallery.
Chike bang you abi E no bang you as a married woman?
Yes or No.
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