My biggest flex is that nobody ever knows what's going on in my life, unless I make it known. You don't know where I'm at, who I'm with, what I'm doing, or my next move. Therefore, anything anyone says about me is an assumption. You can try to put two and two together but it'll never add up. Your privacy is your peace. Keep them lames out your business.
As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, Itโs hurtful and manipulative, and itโs not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.