& some people make that work for them and enjoy it I guess ?? but it seems miserable and confining to have to rely on ur partner for confidence and sense of importance and identity . . . I don’t see the appeal
why do ppl feel allow themselves to endure the extreme discomfort in obsessing over getting validation via their peers/partners. That’s rly what u wanna use ur energy and time on? did it make u happy? Are u winning? what if u just loved urself instead?
not that it’s a bad thing to want or enjoy…. but that’s like going through life trying to force ppl to feed u ur favorite meals on demand bc u refuse to learn how to cook
Yeah this list is actually so deranged I would rather never feel the comforting warmth of another human body for the rest of my life than agree to live under these conditions
I like dogs and don’t mind eating around a well trained dog but. It can range from annoying to stressful to navigate a service dog around ppl’s unemployed untrained pets so yeah leave them at home, or at least train them to sit/lay next to u quietly
@mightbeautistic Besides money? Irl assistance with home & life management (cleaning, preparing food, organizing, creating a calm environment, setting up appointments, task scheduling, time/energy management) workplace and school advocates who can support & fight for our required accommodations.
@nyxeIodeon teachers when they see a 8year old white child having a meltdown or going nonverbal: they’re showing signs of autism! let’s provide resources (:
teachers when they see a 8year old black child having a meltdown or going nonverbal: they’re having an attitude! Punish them ):<
nothing wrong w having insecurities. Everyone has them. the problem is when ppl try to use that as a basis to play victim & control others’ behavior to cater around their insecurities. all u get is 2 ppl frustrated w eachother for being themselves
Y’all really let mf bully you out your principles & boundaries with a Simple worlds like “insecure” .. yes i can’t be with you because I wouldn’t feel secure with you doing certain things or acting a certain way .. now what?
not about to make me feel bad about myself just because you feel bad about yourself lol unless I personally caused u to develop some new insecurity you’ve never had before keep it between u and ur therapist and leave me out of it
what does preventing ppl from jumping metro turnstiles really accomplish? If im risking a fine to ride the metro it’s probably bc i can’t afford to ride it at all otherwise. How do u want ppl to pay for metro if they can’t afford the metro to get to work lmao