@MurdochRobbie@Sauronlordking I had the pleasure of meeting Geoff McDonald a number of times when I was working my first job in Christchurch NZ in 1988. He gave me a signed copy of Shadows over New Zealand. We need more common sense voices like his.
Whatever you do, aim to create a family dynamics that allows the entire family to be one, loved, involved, supportive ad part of your healthy inner community circle