anyway since it got buried youre free to ask for some clarity at monado#5710 but im sure itll be hard for certain people to listen, specifically the ones who cut me out for no reason because of wildly incorrect assumptions about a friend's relationship that they never asked abt
maybe if you got off your own ass and listened to anything i have to say then you'd realize how fucked up this is. just like, y'know, everyone who's listened to what i have to say
"they seem to be okay with people like jake so :barf:" did you read the part where i made this decision in the end.....like ben can tell you i have "dependency issues" all they want but i have a BRAIN and I'M the one who let it happen
anyway thanks for taking the voice away from a victim who tried to share their story. you all care about victims until they say something you dont like
"this level of immaturity is absurd" unfortunately this is what i have to do as someone who had their voice taken away but you all only care about what ben tells you
"so it doesnt spread around like a slow plague where it can be distorted" LISTEN TO THE VICTIM THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT IS CURRENTLY HAPPENING BECAUSE YOU DIDNT LISTEN TO THE VICTIM
"they went "my trauma is worse than your trauma"" fuck me for trying to say what you had to go through does not excuse this kind of reaction and inattention to another victim
"i fear that jake might target me" we're not some Evil Menace That Should Be Feared. we're trauma victims trying to cope and now we have to do damage control for people who won't listen
"them saying kicking jake from the server was worse than their abuse" way to have no sense of nuance. this is exactly what happens when you dont let victims speak for themselves jesus christ did you even listen to anything i told you
imagine being an assault victim and having someone who thinks they know whats best for you rip literally everything from you because you're an assault victim
and since you're so desparate to not let people listen to me then why not let them do it themselves? monado#5710 ask me whatever you want instead of letting someone uninvolved speak for the victim