Texting your boo throughout the day & being able to count on someone to be there for you is so comforting. Especially if your day is going bad or if you're overwhelmed
you need a dangerous amount of confidence to escape an ordinary life cos the person who becomes successful has to believe something that everyone else doubts.
maybe you are not becoming cold. maybe you are finally noticing how many of your relationships depended on you being endlessly available, agreeable, and easy to access.
a regulated nervous system isn't quiet. it's responsive. it laughs loud in restaurants. it cries at commercials. it gets a full body chill from a song it hasn't heard in years. people mistake numbness for peace because numbness is easier to manage. but real peace has a pulse. it moves through you instead of around you.
#fashionbrains: only law roach would pull a willi smith 1987 mj paper doll reference from the spider-man comics and have zendaya bring it to life in custom laquan smith 🕸️