TThe incredibly nuanced and multidimensional web of society cannot be brocken down into rigid categories of "oppressor" and "oppressed".he word "oppressor" imposes a level of agency and intentionality onto people who just happen to be born male or white and it's ridiculous.
Two weeks ago, my father found out about some stuff regarding my transition, and absolutely lost it. Him and I ended up in an hour long confrontation, with him spewing the most hateful things I've heard said to me... ever.