Uncommunicated Excpectations:
"I wanted you to do this, but you didn't. I never told you, but now I'm mad you didn't pick up on it, and now I'm pissed and I wanna leave you".
That's what kills a lot of y'alls relationships.
Zero effort put from one side equals to zero effort put on the other, remember...what happens on the right hand side, must happen on the left hand side - this is not about hands.
If whatever that sound I heard in the early hours of the morning was an Earthquake fr, it was nothing close to how we know an earthquake to be but ish was scary asf! Didn't know whether to run or hide under something.