There are individuals, including your friends and family, who will only support your healing and growth up till the end of their comfort zone. Not everyone wants you to evolve. That's why you have to do it for you, in your own time, in your own way.
Those that have learned to accept what they cannot control, experience more happiness throughout their lifetime. Nothing is ever going to be perfect, but the more you're willing to accept, the closer to perfection you’ll be.