That Muslim matchmaker on TikTok sharing stories about her clients’ ridiculous requirements must feel like the most powerful woman in existence today. AND her honesty does not discriminate between delusional men and delusional women. Absolute diva, I love her
At least seven explosions and low-flying aircraft were heard around 2 a.m. local time Saturday in Venezuela's capital, Caracas. https://t.co/xiQhhRvIVv
Footage which appears to show U.S. Army CH-47G “Chinook” Special Operations Helicopters, likely with the 160th Special Operations Aviation Regiment (SOAR), over the Venezuelan capital of Caracas.
The person who did that to you is probably walking around convinced they did nothing wrong either. They think they were just “going through something.” They think you were too sensitive. They think it just didn’t work out. Or they don’t think about it at all. Because that’s what happens when self awareness is low. The point is you don’t have to be a bad person to do bad things. You just have to be unaware and unwilling to look at yourself. You just have to care more about how you feel than how someone else feels after dealing with you. But when you become self aware, when you really pay attention to your patterns and how your energy affects others, it changes everything. It makes you more accountable, more emotionally present, more intentional. It makes you less likely to become the chapter someone’s still trying to recover from. Which matters more than having good intentions. Because at the end of the day, what people remember most is how you made them feel. Whether you meant to or not.
Everyone has context for their behaviour. They know why they got angry, or ghosted, or were distant, or why they didn’t speak up, or why they reacted the way they did. They have their own backstory. But the people on the receiving end don’t have that context. They just feel the effects. That’s how you end up being someone’s villain without even realising it. You don’t see it, but you might be the reason someone’s anxious now in new relationships, the reason someone doesn’t feel safe expressing their needs, the reason someone stopped trusting people, stopped believing in love, or is still carrying heartbreak they haven’t spoken about. You could be that chapter in someone’s life they don’t talk about anymore, the one that still hurts to think about.
If everyone took the time to examine how they show up and handle people’s feelings, or how they respond under pressure, or what they project onto others, or what habits they’ve picked up that are rooted in fear or ego etc, it would take so much pressure off the people they hurt to be the ones holding up the mirror. The reason there’s so much finger pointing, victimhood, blame and unresolved tension in relationships is because people don’t want to confront how their own patterns and personalities might be harming others. They want to be understood, but they don’t want to understand the impact of their energy.