The Lord is exposing the hearts of the people around you. Heโs going to reveal their true intentions and ulterior motives. Donโt be surprised by what you see. It doesnโt mean that theyโre bad people; theyโre just not YOUR people.
Be mindful of how you treat the people that you actually want to keep around. Cause itโs only so much a person can tolerate and sometimes it be too late to fix it.
Gaslighting is when they always mess with your mind by blaming you for reacting to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
My psychiatrist says as long as you drink alcohol to โescapeโ reality you are an alcoholic
I thought itโs about being dependent on it like on a daily basis?
Now I donโt know
You broke the cycle. Don't let anyone trigger your mental health and bring back an older version of you, and never go back to toxic people no matter how lonely you feel.
The older you get, the more you choose calmness over conflict and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul.
If you know for a fact that you did absolutely nothing to someone and they pull away from you, it's God. Don't even question it. Every separation don't require a discussion.
I want women to free themselves from centuries of silence. If a man can open your legs, then you have every right to open your mouth and express yourself. Say what you want to say and block them.
stop texting men long paragraphs after they hurt you. They donโt care & nothing you say will guilt trip them into caring. Just take ur dignity & goooo!
Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is. Change how you see things. Look for the goal in all situations. Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow. Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.