@BXbuster@NnabuikeMa31784@AaJessehalliday@instablog9ja I could’ve called it self-defense, but what happened in Edo was conquest. Ur ancestors slaughtered innocents, claiming Edo was just a route to a strategic win,yet they lost. Edo wasn’t part of their war, but paid the highest price. Still, no remorse. Just silence and pride.
@ChuksEricE Where is the 'gallant' and 'omnipresent' @Princemoye1 and his band of IGP Kayode Egbetokun-led @PoliceNG boys when you need them in Benue State?
This is a former Presidential Media aide who has OON attached to his name telling the world that it is wrong for a citizen to criticize the Governor who is a public Servant. There is no justification for the destruction of Rahama Saidu’s properties!!! And the first part of Bashir’s message blames the victim instead of outrightly condemning the attack!
So a citizen expressing her frustrations is justification for the destruction of her properties?
Do the people no longer have the right to express themselves?
You love to defend oppression when it affects others but turn around to condemn it when it affects you…
Despicable!
I and other tenants have been paying 1.3M as R£nt for the past three years to the caretaker of our house.
The landlord visited us recently without the idea of the caretaker, and we decided to plead with him to reduce the house rent to 1M
Atanda, you won't believe that the landlord was sh0cked to hear that we are paying 1.3M
He claims that what the caretaker sends to him is 500k each, and that is what he told him to collect from us.
Well, he said we shouldn't worry that he will handle the situation and our next rent will be 500k
What i want to know now is that
Can i take up a case of Fr(a)ud up with the caretaker so that he will R£fund me my balance of 800k for 3 years, which is 2.4M??
@Factoid80@lollypeezle When it comes to sex, women choose who has access.
But how many times have you seen a woman proposing to a man and succeeding? That's a man's domain.
Sex is her power, and commitment is his.
In my first year in UK, I stayed in a big apartment and we were 7 flatmates.(1 Spanish, 1 Latvian, 1 Indian-Brit, 1 Canadian, Myself and 2 Polish - boy and girl). Everyone had their rooms.
Few months later, the Polish started dating. They were 19. They didn't come from rich homes so they worked to support their living expenses. They planned their finances together, they both worked to pay bills. When they are running late on bills, they come and explain that "we are ......." They were both invested in the relationship.
When they address things concerning them, it is always "We" and "Our."
- we are saving to rent another place to live alone.
- we are managing our finances because we don't earn much(minimum wage differ by age, and they were less than 21, which means they earned less).
- We are both trying to get extra jobs to augment our earnings.
- I'll get this on my way back. Can you do this?
They were 19!!! I've told you relationship is common sense. It doesn't need prayer. You just need a good value system. You're dating 28 to 32 year olds that are still shouting "a man has to...." because she values money above your relationship. Maturity isonu.
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The Spanish guy was 23 and he was dating an Indian babe. She had a car and he didn't. She always came to pick him up. They worked in the same place. They travelled to India, Italy, Spain and he never funded one trip himself. They always pulled resources to do things together.
You see why your 9ja guys are always crying when they date foreign women because they just experienced love, commitment and responsibility for the first time. I promise you that you don't need to go abroad to experience it. If you have a good value system and understand how love works, you won't date nonsense.
@IconicLawyer@instablog9ja Lolll, u thought, we thought wives were supposed to be at home not working, sleeping and waking up, how come you are working ma'am? You want to choose and pick as you like. He no dey work. Na man wey dey marry I blame. Nothing wey man dey find 4 marriage, wey no dey relationship
@itz_brown01 Lol, broke men , broke men, bt na woman die, at least Una done see say no b only man dey broke? Woman self dey follow dey broke. So next time keep ur one gender brokeness 4 one place nd face reality of building a home where both partners can step up 4 each other when need arises.
@Hotchoco_barbie@HopeIgbo1 @itz_brown01 When the pikin bear the surname, wetin b man benefits other than billing and when the child grow up, na still mama dey enjoy am only before? Madam carry your surname go one side, keep it to yourself oo. Make pikin even bear your muscle, even inscribe am.
When a broke boy offends them..
“*Blocks his number straight away”
When a rich dude offends them…
“*Calls him… ‘Kunle, you ehn.. just delete my number o.. don’t call me again’
@instablog9ja So the man's life isn't at stake for being with a broke lady? A lady that couldn't afford the same money..Abi the child no be for two people? Ohhh they use surname to make men think they are part owners, but one there is misunderstanding, then they show you their real thoughts
@Chiniel5@Benjamindigreat@instablog9ja Lolll, so she no get money before she get belle? Pikin wey she go born, come still remind the man say na only she get am, abii which one ? Or the kid that you all only see the man as part owner when it involves financial contribution, once it's done , he isn't seen as part owner.
@ThaBoyYom I think it's mostly girls that get offended by the question, and that's because they are into OS, or don't have a legitimate job,so gaslighting is the order of the day, so once someone gets offended by that question,then it's no two way answer.
@Namoneyideyfind@the_beardedsina Ohh but the part of the parents being able to send you parking once you can adhere to them when you 18 should be added to what is Good about them. You can pick and throw away, every coin has two sides, that's why most African parents who die 4 their kids irrespective of age.
There is nothing bad in your parents seeing you as a future retirement plan.
They've spent much and invested in you.
You're only angry because you're a badly behaved and ungrateful child.