One thing I can’t stand is transactional relationships. People expect endless favors, support, and loyalty from me, but when I need something in return, suddenly it comes with conditions or a price tag. That’s why I value genuine reciprocity so much.
always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you,sometimes you're the toxic one. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. see the things you need to work on. apologize, unlearn and relearn. that's growth
• consideration.
• willing to compromise.
• random thoughtfulness, check-ins, and availability
• loving you in the language you truly want and understand
• communication and attention
• excitement, willingness, and provisions.
• offering emotional safety.
A disagreement at 2PM doesn’t cancel dinner at 6PM. A lot of people treat conflict like it erases the love in a relationship.
One disagreement happens and suddenly kindness disappears, effort, communication, and now you have two people acting like enemies.