Ending a relationship with a narcissist is not like a regular breakup, people always ask victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse why can’t you just move on? Why can’t you get over it? Why are you still thinking about this person who treated you so bad who mentally abused you
it's either I distance to protect myself or I distance to protect others from me. I know when my peace is at risk. I also know when I'm being toxic already. in both situations the best approach for me is to disconnect until things get calm.
she’s furious bc someone she trusted lied in her face. she had faith in that specific person, thinking they would be different from the ppl who had lied to her and used her for their own ends. sadly, she was disappointed to find that they were all the same. she is me— very upset!
I’m not mad, I’m DONE!!!! that’s what people don’t be understanding, I’m not mad at anyone I’m just DONE. DONE dealing with situations that rob me of my peace. I’m DONE dealing with people that don’t love me as I love them, don’t try as hard as I try, don't put in the effort that I put in. I’m just DONE. That’s it, once I see that you’re abusing what I bring to the table friend or relationship wise, THATS IT! I’m not mad, I’m not angry, I’m just DONE.
i feel so detached from people after i remove myself from them... it feels like whatever relationship we ever had didn’t even happen and whenever I think about it, it feels fake. like it was a dream or something. what is that??
if they wanna talk to you, they would. if they wanna be with you, they would. if they wanna make things work, they would. don’t ever let things be one sided, it’s not healthy nor fair for you.