I’m such a LEAVER. If my friends start acting weird‚ I’m out. If a man tries to disturb my peace and sanity, I’m gone. If my guts says no‚ I’m disappearing.
I’m not waiting for an explanation or change, won’t stress me in my own life.
I finally feel like I learned my lesson & I’ll no longer be going through the same cycles or feeling like I’m meeting the same people just in different bodies it was a hard realization but I’m glad I was able to sit with myself and figure it out.
i’m too grown to be calling somebody my man when the only thing we do together is lay up behind closed doors. no real dates, no quality time outside the bedroom, never been introduced to anybody important in his life, no consistency outside of when he wanna see me. baby, that’s not a relationship just because y’all talk every day & sleep together. sometimes the hardest part ain’t figuring out what a man wants from you… it’s accepting that what he’s giving you is ALL he intends to give. stop giving somebody a boyfriend title when they only showing up for boyfriend benefits. you can’t keep calling it potential when the pattern been showing you exactly what it is.