im gonna be so honest and say dapping up has been the single most hardest thing about being a trans guy and i genuinely dont understand how ur supposed to know what the other guy is gonna do w his hands fkekkdnfkwn bc sometimes they get a little freaky w it like
@_yur1lov3r top surgery quite literally cured much of my body image issues. i undid my compression vest and for the first time in my life i considered myself “too small” and no joke, my ED was j gone, just like that. i genuinely believe ur right and i hope u get to have that someday soon.
like i literally never needed all that adderall fjdjskdnnd just the ability to sleep like a normal person… but nooo narcolepsy takes 15 years on average to dx and treat :/
i’m just so disabled rn lol & it’s so hard to cope when all u want to do is DO things. i miss putting on events, being active in anarchyland, communized health projects, solving problems instead of being the problem-haver who needs help 😭 i am RESTLESS
i hate seeing the messages build up on signal and not having the energy consistency or cognitive bandwidth to PARTICIPATE!! aaaasghghh like i have IDEAS and SOLUTIONS and INPUT 😭😭😭
i keep meaning to change my link in bio since people’s bail out project has ended but i also like continuing to put the idea out there (there are many ways to get ppl free)
@orgnhrvest@GigachadessMain some of those cis ppl might not be cis! i think cis allies can b annoying as hell but it still benefits like, literally everyone to be exposed to this stuff and willing to learn. the post rlly isnt defensible, and it also directly blaming trans ppl, not cis ppl.
@orgnhrvest@GigachadessMain again, making transness more insular prevents other trans ppl from transitioning and actively causes more trans death and suffering. i have empathy for dysphoria, i dont have empathy for being toxic abt it. asking other trans ppl to hide themselves isnt justifiable.
@JBotato the entire notion that there is such thing as an inherent “predatory nature” to any one gender or type of person is literally the logic of racism! also seeing ur 16 and j wanna say keep it up 🖤
@fortinbraslived@lsbntism lesbian is a fine word for that. never said it wasnt and i dont think anyones lying abt it either. that’s not my argument. we often give distinct language to nebulous and unruly things, pointing out that nature =/= denying its existence, im questioning the substance.
@gigafoided@Nevertobeu16739@leonyyy0 keyword here is “obsession” and what’s normal =/= what’s right. have some self control and confront ur impulses maybe
@gigafoided@Nevertobeu16739@leonyyy0 the point is being obsessed w category makes u fucking freak lol like socially. “by my logic” im leaving him alone unless he does something that warrants otherwise. you’re not even comprehending what “my logic” is here to retort meaningfully or coherently