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i’ll be right by your side till 3005

[a @twinkwalobotomy]

@boyintheorchard the reason why this is problematic is bc ur preferences are shaped by eurocentric or dominant ideals around beauty we reinforce these same values through the expression of sexual choices

[a @twinkwalobotomy]

i think most critiques of hook up culture in the queer community fail because the incentive structure of sex is so different.

Sex traditionally functioned as a social coordination a path alongside commitment (eg marriage, family)
The path (for most) doesn’t exist esp in SG

[a @twinkwalobotomy]

@boyintheorchard imagine pre hook up culture: You meet someone, dinner dates etc. You form an emotional connection before having sex.
But now you can go into grindr and js hook up. (The primary decision making factor is sexual attraction given the large supply u have)

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@Doey_the_Dory HAHAHA THANKS 😿

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no bc what r yall gg to do when i turn this page into another substack 🥰

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couldn’t stay away from this app

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my tan line kinda insane

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is douching necessary or is it recommended. Bc what if u wanna bottom spontaneously

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This effect is so potent esp in places like SG where identity is so stifled an the only real sense of community exists on grindr

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i feel like the reason why gay culture and spaces feel so sexualised is bc there is a lack of queer spaces to encompass all kinds of gay people. In order to seek out a shared community, so many young gay guys enter spaces like grindr or twt which inevitably repeat this cycle

[Nicky💕 @jas_d_barbie]

i rebuke every negative thing said over my life even as a joke

[andy @suicidejokess]

how it feels like seeing your oomfs tweet about hudson’s whimpers while you’re broke

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@menl0ver123 yes king pop off

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@freedagoman oh wow 😀

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@menl0ver123 C’est très mignon 😭

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@AureusPega99593 alr js did

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@adamm_apple the starting songs were terrible icl