@SuqMeSilly@travisakers 1. celebrating with black friends/family is different than celebrating by yourself or with only white people 2. juneteenth isn't the day slavery was abolishing, slavery is also still legal if you are in prison which is why black people have disproportionate rates of incarceration
it's so evil to be transphobic under the veil of being progressive. does jax have to break the forth wall to tell you "i am transgender" before you accept it? or would you find a way to deny that too
@SuqMeSilly@travisakers genuinely what could you possibly be enjoying or celebrating as a non black person on a holiday explicitly about black people being freed from slavery
people need to analyze the relationship between gangle and jax more than just either “JAX BULLIES GANGLE I HATE JAX I HATE JAX I HATE JAX” or “i love toxic ribbun” because i think there is a lot of really deep stuff in their relationship that nobody pays too well of attention to
@martyrwing Can't even start engaging on reddit if you're a new account because every community has a required karma amount to post or their guidelines are both specific and non specific so your posts get taken down for genuinely no reason
@OriginOfWest also like if a minor is posting nsfw art or whatever on social media and purposefully not telling people they're a minor that is fucked up to the 18+ audience that thinks they're engaging with adults only to find out they've been engaging in nsfw with minors
@OriginOfWest it's crazy to see cus when i was a minor i was like "rahh minors experience sexual stuff too why can't i engage with nsfw online" and then as an adult i realize that it's not because minors are pure non sexual beings it's because it's dangerous to put yourself in 18+ communities
@jpchumbo@NobI3_Six@Nexiraluv for bisexuality, yes basically. "hearts, not parts" is a popular phrase to represent pansexuality but it actually originated from the bi community to combat restrictive stereotypes. people of any sexuality can still have preferences though
@MaryDyerfnxb@tulinuu hey so if you can't take a fucking hint, i didn't respond to you for a reason. you keep asking more questions to try to get some kind of gatcha and i don't care. there's no point in having a conversation if you're not going to actually listen
@MaryDyerfnxb It is genuinely too much to accurately explain on twitter. If you are genuinely asking for the purpose of learning, please search "the ten stages of genocide" and click the genocidewatch link. it outlines how genocide works and how each stage manifests, that should explain it
making an intersectional/political distinction between trans men and cis men isn't transphobic. pretending like ANY trans men benefit from male privilege is actually very dangerous and results in downplaying struggles which then leads to trans men dying. so
@jpchumbo@NobI3_Six@Nexiraluv try to think of gender as a linear spectrum for now. one end is masculinity with a binary man at the end, and the other is the opposite with femininity with neutral (non binary) in the middle. if you have a masculine gender, (cont in images)
@MaryDyerfnxb@tulinuu you have it backwards. trans people aren't putting themselves into harm, bigoted cisgender people are causing major harm to anyone who doesn't fit into heteronormative society (not just trans people) because they're threatened by the dismantling of social constructs
@jpchumbo@NobI3_Six@Nexiraluv right so the "bi" in bisexual isn't for 2 genders, it's for 2 types of attraction. homosexual and heterosexual. these attractions include a diverse range of gender identities. the bisexual manifesto and bisexual flag BOTH state that bisexuals are attracted to all genders
@bumblitis trans men aren't male. male is a biological sex. the connection between male/man and female/woman is made up and needs to be dismantled. we can stop this conversation since i do believe we won't agree, but i just wanted to say that sex and gender are very different.
@MaryDyerfnxb@tulinuu that's the issue isn't it? this is where the social construct falls apart... usually what leads trans people to feeling like the opposite gender is experiencing dysphoria when being treated like their assigned gender. but in an ideal world gender doesn't really exist
@bumblitis nope it doesn't because as soon as you pull identification out to get housing or a job, you are no longer seen as a cis man. changing your gender marker depends on the state so yes perhaps a fully cishet passing trans man in certain states will have an easier time with housing
@MaryDyerfnxb@tulinuu They feel like one.. and to answer your next question, gender feels different for every person. even cisgender people have unique ideas and experiences for what their gender means to them