Erykah Badu told us to pack light and most thought it was about luggage.
She meant: stop carrying things that aren't yours.
His shame. His insecurities. His inability to see your value. None of that is yours to carry. Pack light.
You have places to go.
Even if you don’t live in NYC, please retweet this and get the word out so that the ppl in YOUR city also learn that they too can have politicians who get things done if they mobilize and vote socialist in other elections! 🗣️
i enjoy feeling safe in my relationship. Not safe in terms of this is "comfortable" safe but more like.... wow i can rely on you to consistently show up for me emotionally, spiritually and physically, over span of time.. preferably years.
bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change
Green flags in a s*xual partner ✅:
- they ask for consent
- they use protection
- they prioritize foreplay
- they check in during s*x
- they take aftercare seriously
- they respect your boundaries
- they’re open to using lube & toys
- they’re honest about their STI status
- they don’t make jokes about your body
Romantic things i want to experience 💗:
♡ Dancing or kissing in the rain.
♡ Picnic date.
♡ A "this reminded me of you " anything
♡ Putting a necklace on me.
♡ Picking up flowers on his way to me/ random flowers.
♡ Seeing candid pictures of me in his gallery just because he thought I looked pretty.
♡ A love letter.
♡ A handmade something.
♡ Baking something from scratch together.
♡ A hug after a bad dream.
♡ Putting a blanket of me during a nap.
♡ Feeling loved back constantly.
Disturb me.
Update me.
Get upset if I do something dumb.
Show your jealous side.
Yap non stop.
Spam me with photos/texts.
Tell me how your daywent.
Show me your fit
Call/FT me anytime
Send those insta reels
I love the little things.
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