a man that tries to teach you is trying to keep you. honey look, in the world today, good men are rare and if you have a man who cares enough about you to teach you and advise you, he is a man you can trust to have your best interest at heart cos the man who teaches you, advises you and corrects you with care is a man who sees your potential and invests in his future with you. donโt ever confuse that for control or manipulation. the grass isnโt always greener.