Being able to call on and depend on a man is a flex, IN MY OPINION! I mean yes I can absolutely handle things on my own but just knowing my life is a little easier because Im supported and someone always has my back is top tier to me.🥹
Never tolerate disrespect. The more chances you give someone the less respect they'll start to have for you. They'll begin to ignore the standards that you've set because they know another chance will always be given. Set healthy boundaries, and foster good relationships.
I woke up noticing something that i do that’s really toxic and unhealthy , I have a bad habit of continuously bringing up a situation that hurt me , just to get clarification . When the clarification was the situation .
Men nowadays want you to prove your worth to them in order for them to treat you right. That’s the worst mindset to have with me cause I’m not auditioning for treatment I know I deserve. The minute you pursued me was the minute you knew my worth. Don’t play.
Ppl avoid difficult or uncomfortable conversations knowing they may be in the wrong & then call it “protecting their peace”. Like no beloved you’re just spineless and lack accountability but I digress.
People are usually taken aback when I open up about how bad my anxiety is because I’m pretty high functioning and come off as a social butterfly at times. But I be fighting for my life 😭