Sebelum tidur, kita istighfar dan taubat kepada Allah. Hatta kita berseorangan. Itu tanda kita bertaqwa dalam keadaan terang atau sembunyi.
Imam Ibn Rajab sebut :
وأفضلُ الأعمال خشيةُ الله في السرِّ والعلانية
“Amal paling utama adalah takut kepada Allah dalam sembunyi
reading back all my post and I just realised how my past relationship literally draining tf out of me... I lost my spark, I almost losing myself for someone who don't even deserved me.
Masturbation in Islam
Most people don’t talk about this. But silence has never healed anyone. And too many Muslims are struggling with this alone.
Here is what Islam truly says:
People respect you more when they don't see you often. Even parents. Trust me. It's strange how distance rearranges love, how absence restores what closeness erodes. When people are deprived of your presence, they start seeing you clearly again, not through habit but through awareness. Proximity dulls perception. Space sharpens it. That's just how the human mind works.
Kita mesti tawakkal dan redha selepas berusaha. No matter how hard we work, remember that life is unpredictable, and anything can happen. Whatever happens, just keep on going and never give up.
It is so irony how when I have 'someone', I would always have a low confidence, I feel like they hold down my wings to grow more, to love myself, to be a 'me'. But once I get out from they life, I feel so much alive...
"siapa suruh salah pilih suami?"
Ok then bila perempuan cari jodoh list down kriteria yang dia inginkan dalam suami korang jugak yang melenting terlalu demand la, peminis la, kepamist la.
Perempuan tak nak kahwin pun panas telur.
Apa2 pilihan hidup perempuan memang salah.
Bila perempuan kahwin lambat or tak kahwin, terus ramai yang bising. Macam hidup single ni menyusahkan semua orang. Tapi time ada isteri kena abuse, mental torture sampai depressed semua,no one talk about it louder like they talk about single people. 😑😑😵💫