Girls in their 30s be like, "OMG I'm so behind," but meanwhile they've healed their inner child, stopped people pleasing, left that toxic job, started therapy, learned to enjoy their own company, travel when they want, and actually like themselves now. Like sis, you're not behind at all. You're evolving.
Hate to break it to you guys but sometimes you have to do things you don’t like for the sake of having a community. Avoiding consistency with the people in your life is working against us and the data already shows it. If you think connections can be sustained on absence carry on
I shut up when people say what they won’t do for someone they’re talking to cause if makes you happy & I can do it then I’m doing it - no questions asked
The biggest skill you can develop is the ability to reset fast. Bad conversation? Move on. Bad day? Start fresh tomorrow. Missed workout? Hit it the next day. Poor decision? Learn and adjust. You can’t control what happens to you, but you control how long you let it affect you.
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn’t really about hard work. It’s more about alignment, meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
a woman cannot be your peace if you are not creating the environment that allows her to be at peace with herself. you can’t continuously give her problems and instability, then expect her to become your place of comfort. peace can only exist where safety and security are present.
i keep thinking about the line “discernment can make you the villain in a room where denial is the culture.” whoever said it really knew what they were on about.