one of my biggest triggers is people who avoid repair/accountability and jump straight back into normal conversation just because time has passed.
you don’t get to be lighthearted while I’m still sitting with what you caused.
The most fulfilling relationships women have are with other women. They show up for us, they are funny, remember birthdays and gifts us on a random Tuesday. They're there during hard times, support our ventures and love us. And sex isn't even on the table. You are the issue
you will learn very quickly that a lot of people are not community minded when shit hits the fan. i implore you to investigate the quality of your connections -before- something life shattering happens and you learn in real time
I genuinely believe avoidants show up in your life to help you break free from anxious attachment. They force you to get grounded in who you are and grow into someone unshakeable.
I feel like the more people I meet, the more predictable human behavior feels, like there’s only a handful of archetypes and they keep showing up in different bodies over and over again
some books you are meant to buy and have sit on your shelf until the version of you who is meant to read it is born. i’ll always support buying an insane amount of books.
BRAINSTORM, outline, rough draft to swap with your classmates, THEN the teacher checked it and THEN it was time for the final draft. the kids are not obtaining any of these critical skills. also the final draft HAD to be in script for certain classes/grades.