Being smart and able to communicate thoughts well can really turn off a lot of men and women alike. And it's not enough for a relationship. The web is loaded with content about all topics and there are many good books despite people not reading them. Once you have a solid grip on the most relevant topics there are diminishing returns unless you are really smart. But really smart gets really depressing because the world is really bad.
My favorite question to be asked is why am I still single and I have to explain that I am mentally ill and feel I am unworthy of being loved until I am where I feel like I should be in life
Rich kids being able to do art for a living may be a reflection of their privilege but it seems to me like a reflection of the fact that a human that doesn't have to worry about money will often choose art. everyone is an artist until rent is due. i wish we all had that right
The fastest way to create Black wealth is not stocks, real estate, or Crypto
If 6 million Black men ages 40–60 each had a $1M life insurance policy, that would create $6 TRILLION in tax-free wealth transfer to the next generation.
The avg policy costs less than a car note...
i’m single because, i’ve done a lot of work on myself and i’m still doing more and what i crave is beyond surface level, you can like the idea of me and think you like me but when i demand depth and effort, you can’t meet me there.
i don’t want something that just feels good for a while, i want something that can stand pressure, growth and real life situations.
a lot of people like love until it requires understanding, patience and consistency.
i’m not in a rush because i’m also praying that whoever comes into my life will not just see me but be able to handle the weight of who i am becoming.