Don't forget you can:
• start at 21
. fail at 25
• start over at 26
• struggle
• get better
• be different than everyone else
• get in the wrong career
• find your lane
• find the right career
• start over at 30, 35, or even 45
And still succeed.
i have to lose 10 pounds and clean my room and get a new job and be more outgoing and make more friends and change my wardrobe and fix my gut issues and stop sleeping so late and get a masters and meal prep and stop being myself
WHY AM I SO FAR BEHIND EVERYONE MY AGE WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR ME TO DO THE SAME THINGS AS EVERYONE ELSE WHY CANT I JUST BE NORMAL AND NOT STRUGGLE OR BE SCARED OF EVERYTHING
So when my friends share their struggles, my first response is empathy. A lot of times, they’ve already tried their best and rushing to solutions isn’t the answer when someone needs reassurance. What you call “babying” is just human empathy—the absence of which you mask as logic.