I detach very fast. Anything i love extremely deeply I'm prepared to lose. It can break my heart but I have learned how to keep going. It can seem cold, but if it takes me off my pivot.. I’ll cut my finger off to save my hand.
I can’t lose myself again, for anything. I'll heal
So this man I been dealing with for a lil minute finally found out I wasn’t putting all my eggs in his basket… and now he SICK. Like hurt-hurt. Talking bout “I feel betrayed” and “I thought we was serious.” Serious WHERE?? 🤨 No title. No exclusivity convo. No ring. No “hey, let’s stop seeing other people.” Just dates, laughs, and you pulling up when it was convenient for YOU. I was dating. Not committing. I never lied, I just never over-explained. I move intentional, not emotional. I watch patterns, consistency, reactions, discipline. I give a man time to show me who he really is before I decide if he worth choosing. And while I’m observing, best believe I keep my options OPEN. Funny how men call it “keeping their roster,” “just talking,” or “seeing what’s out there”… but the second a woman do the same sht, now she a villain. Now it’s “you sneaky,” “you cold,” “you played me.” No boo you played YOURSELF assuming exclusivity you never asked for. 4 months is my deadline. If a man still floating in potential and vibes by then, I move accordingly. Im not arguing, begging, or explaining. Clock ran out. Lesson learned. Next. 🥱
7 things Id love to experience at least once in my life >>>
1.A suprise birthday party
2.Being loved loudly
3. I saw this and thought of you
4."I got you this because I know you like it
5. An "I'm proud of you"
6. An"everything is going to be okay"
7.A true hug
He is not on this list. All the people on this list answer to him and are on his payroll but when he wants it done faster, he does it himself.
Only real ones know him.
My neighbor bring indomie come make I chop this morning.
This same girl wey him bf Dey complain say e no Dey cook.
As she drop am, she no go.
She say she wan see me as I Dey chop am.
I tell am make she take one spoon;
she say No!
Barca fans.
Una wan Joffrey Lannister Me😂
I think I’m one of the very few people who can’t identify what iPhone a person is using from just looking at it.
It’s crazy that some people can do that by just looking at your camera and I find that very…interesting.