Impilo iunpredictable kodwa don't give up when things aren't going as you had planned
Learn to adjust, grow and move on
I swear your time is coming
Plans change and it could be changing for the better
I stopped telling people when my mental health starts slipping again. Once I heard someone say how exhausting it is to love someone with depression and anxiety, it stayed with me. I never want to feel like I’m draining the people I care about while I’m barely keeping myself afloat. So I go quiet. I carry it alone. Not because I want to, but because being seen as a burden hurts more than the silence.
One thing about me.. I’m gonna evolve. I don’t care what mindset I had a week ago.. everyday I wake up wanting better, thinking wiser & moving closer to the woman I pray I become
As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for shit, it makes me uncomfortable. That's why I like men who just DO. Don't ask just figure out what i need/ want & DO IT.
I used to tell myself “maybe they're going through something” to justify the way people treated me. But then I realised I was going through a lot too, and I still never treated anyone that way.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
What's the point of calling them your people if you can't run to them when life gets heavy? What's the point of love, friendship or connection if you have to sit alone with your pain just to avoid feeling like a burden.