in new york you gotta leave the house with a change of clothes and a bikini in ur bag every time just in case. even if you’re just going to grab a coffee .. you never know where the day will take you
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
we must free ourselves from the shackles of embarrassment in pursuit of genuine connection, for risk is a natural requirement for authenticity. blurt out a random compliment!!!! commit that faux pas!!!! say your uhms and ahhs!!!!
everyone wants life to feel like sex and the city but no one wants to accidentally stay out way too late on a random weeknight or show up at a friends place unannounced
the scarier side of communication is, "i messed up. i wronged you, i accept that. but im not willing to lose you so tell me what to do to fix it." it takes courage to admit that even to yourself, let alone another person. and if you genuinely fear losing someone, you will do it.