I hate how iSocial media has made us forget that kunama stages empilweni and it is normal to be broke, have broke friends, partners and so on and mostly importantly to be unemployed. These are stages in life. Abanye baba nenhlanhla to get jobs at a young age and are able to afford a certain lifestyle, some aren't and it's okay. I want us to be okay with where we are in life whilst striving for the better.
A lot of ppl are dating bodies that look like adults but speak from unprocessed ages.
If you remove the validation, they have nothing left to offer. This is why convos feel flat. A lot of ppl are emotionally underdeveloped housing teenage communication patterns.