@Melo_Malebo 1. Put everything in writing.
2. Don’t get entangled in office politics, gossip and cliques.
3. Speak when spoken to
4. Not every thought and emotion should be expressed, sometimes take a deep breath and walk away.
5. Clean and dress up well.
girl to girl: sometimes you’ll find an old picture of yourself and suddenly realize you were actually beautiful during a time when you spent so much energy criticizing yourself.
Clock it King. Just like there’s nothing wrong with sleeping with colleagues, the moment your husband allows you to go out and work instead of making you a fully provided-for rich housewife, he’s basically confessing he can’t meet every single one of your needs.
Ngiyak'bona lokho mama...
But I wish for women, men that bring them peace, assurance as flowers, validation as compliments... the kind we
where wena ufune idrama🤣, because you just can't fathom the kindness and love, just meant for you!
i’ve always found this interesting. two people can hear the exact same apology. one hears sincerity. the other hears another performance. the difference is usually not the apology. it’s everything that happened before it.