being extremely open minded about things sucks cuz people will immediately think of you as some kind of weirdo simply for trying to understand all sides of a story and trying to be mature about things than just randomly throw accusations
i don't know who needs to hear this but your ability to create the reality that you want is directly determined by your willingness to experience its opposite.
- saving money will have you feeling broke while it's actually making you rich.
- setting boundaries will have you feeling alone while you're creating new healthy relationships in your life.
- digging up your trauma will have you feeling broken while it's actually healing you.
- working out has you feeling weak while it's really making you strong.
- learning something new makes you feel dumb while it's making you more intelligent.
your ability to attain the thing that you want is directly correlated with how willing you are to experience its opposite. you have to be ok with being uncomfortable to truly achieve success!
Your childhood experiences are never your fault, but your adult responsibility is to heal from them so you don't damage every person who tries to love you.
We must try by all means to avoid the Begging Culture in this Country 🇿🇦.
If you don’t have money- stay at home. Our dignity and Pride must never be compromised.
You’re selling Nico G by forcing him out. Just like that? Ruthlessly?
A player who in the first part of last season played a huge role in keeping us stable in Rodri’s absence, who steered that midfield all by himself before Pep decided to change things and we started struggling again in the closing stretch of the season.
A player who took us to the FA Cup final when all hope was gone.
A player with his qualities? I’m so sorry, Nico. I’m sorry, man. I’m absolutely gutted.