@astou_jolie Effort in relationships should be mindful and balanced because investing in someoneโs growth or life should ideally come with clarity about where you stand not assumptions or one-sided expectations.
Kumele uyazi nje indawo yakho emhlabeni kanye nasezimpilweni zabantu, friendships, relationships just know your place. If they decide not to tell you, invite you still know your place ungabuzi lutho. People will show you uma bekudinga ezimpilweni zabo ungangabazi. You don't force or convince anyone ngesidingo sakho ezimpilweni zabo. Uyazi indawo yakho ungalokhu uchaza ubuza izinto eziningi .