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[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

The reason rejection hurts you is because you expect everyone to like you.

But in reality, no matter how good, kind, or amazing you are, not everyone will return that energy.

Some people have nothing against you, they just don't like you naturally.

Understand this as a man. 👇

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

@manus0024 Sorry to say this but your friend is a blatant fool if this was true.

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

But you won't be able to voice out your displeasure because you've already been crowned with the title of understanding.

Never accept less than you know you deserve. Nobody knows how you feel, and not like they care. Self-sacrifice has no reward. Quit it & look out for yourself.

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

One of the worst things that can happen to you in life is for people to see you as an "understanding" person.

Not that it is bad to be one exactly, but some people will take advantage of your profound selflessness for their own

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[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

They will serve you crumbs because they believe you're a reasonable person, meaning you'll never get what you want exactly.

You'll always form the bigger person while you hurt inside because your needs are not actually met.

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[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

THE ANATOMY OF REJECTION: REJECTION AS A CALCULATED VARIABLE

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

The reason rejection hurts you is because you expect everyone to like you.

But in reality, no matter how good, kind, or amazing you are, not everyone will return that energy.

Some people have nothing against you, they just don't like you naturally.

Understand this as a man. 👇

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

THE ANATOMY OF REJECTION: REJECTION AS A CALCULATED VARIABLE

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

The reason rejection hurts you is because you expect everyone to like you.

But in reality, no matter how good, kind, or amazing you are, not everyone will return that energy.

Some people have nothing against you, they just don't like you naturally.

Understand this as a man. 👇

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

Humility is great, but you need a subtle arrogance and pride in you when approaching women—one that says, "I am the prize."

Do the work, take the shots, and clear every ounce of regret out of your system.

Good luck, champ.

Heed.

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

The reason rejection hurts you is because you expect everyone to like you.

But in reality, no matter how good, kind, or amazing you are, not everyone will return that energy.

Some people have nothing against you, they just don't like you naturally.

Understand this as a man. 👇

[BIGWATER @ubuntugc]

A woman is just the female version of a man. Treat her as such and imbibe it in you that she is human.

She bleeds, farts, sleeps, and wakes up just like you. Her beauty is a feminine gift. Your confidence is your masculine gift. She's using hers; use yours.

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