I’m such a "thank you so much" typa girl because i understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so i'll always appreciate the people who choose to show up for me.!
All women are not "nurturers" or "caregivers." Some of us just want to make money, travel, do skincare, read books, and partake in ADULT relationships that don't require copious amounts of caregiving-adjacent emotional labor. One day, people will learn this.