if God had a love language, it’d be obedience.
if you’ll strive to love someone who is imperfect the way they feel loved most, why not do it for the perfect-loving-merciful-gracious-almighty-holy-creator of the universe ?
Jesus works through us as we work with him.
we must work in step with the spirit, which means our heart and mind must be encouraged and lead by the words from God which lay on the pages of the bible.