not only do i love a man that i can call for everything, i love when a man wants to be called for everything. never annoyed, always ready to solve a problem
i'm sorry but sex will never be enough just for me to stick around. I need my soul fed. Spiritual growth. Deep conversations. Genuine effort. Emotional intelligence. Consistency.
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
I’m so embarrassed by all the pathetic and desperate shit I’ve done in an attempt to feel loved, and I’m more embarrassed that nothing has ever worked.
Although I'm ok with being single, i can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore. Real is Rare.
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.
nothing is gonna ruin a relationship/friendship faster than seeing your partner/friend showing up for people in a way that you wanted them to show up for you
I like dating men that do things for me, but it’s never an obligation. If you’re not the type to do things for your woman, I just simply won’t continue dating you. Idk why men get so angry about it either lmao
I'M GONNA HOLD YOUR HAND WHEN SAY THIS BUT: a man has to be more certain about you than you are about him, otherwise you'll spend the whole relationship chasing balance that was never there.