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[soup🕷️ @thrluv]

if you think i'm rude, you should hear the narrator in my head. absolutely unhinged

[Pleasure Architect @11Architect11]

a lab in the netherlands scanned couples during orgasm and stumbled onto the strangest finding in sex research.

when women wore socks, the orgasm rate jumped from 50% to 80%

the researchers weren't studying socks. the scanning room was cold, some women complained, socks were offered. suddenly the success rate exploded and the team realized they'd accidentally run the most important experiment of the study

the mechanism showed up right on the brain scans. female orgasm requires the amygdala, the brain's fear and threat detection center, to power down. cold feet kept the threat system quietly online. warm feet let it switch off. that tiny bit of physical discomfort was enough to block the entire cascade

- her brain cannot climax and scan for problems at the same time. the systems are neurologically mutually exclusive
- socks are a stand-in for the real variable: comfort. temperature, privacy, no time pressure, no risk of interruption, nothing pinching or hurting. every small discomfort is a tax on the fear center
- this is why the same technique works one night and fails the next. the variable that changed wasn't your hands. it was her nervous system's threat level
- the environment is doing foreplay before you touch her. warm room, locked door, no rush, phone away

men study techniques for years and lose to a cold room. her nervous system decides if orgasm is possible before your skills ever enter the conversation. handle the amygdala first. the socks were never about socks

[𝐊 ✰ @itssthyherinme]

Yall why this girl thought I was coming to her as a woman about my babydaddy… No boo I was letting you know he passed away.

[𐙚 @blythedollbaby]

walking around undiagnosed and irritable just like my father #daddysgirl

[PAPI ACE | FREE BY CHOICE @AceFreeByChoice]

This what women be talking about when it comes to men.. how in the middle of a crisis this man first instinct is sexual assault

[Femme dot capital @ICONOCLASTIAE]

Hating men is the only way to get a good man. If you like men you’ll tolerate anything, if you hate them, only the best will be good enough.

[Marina 🍀✨🫶 @mareeener]

I would literally break up over this

[Lynne @_ayandamay]

I want a refund on every minute I spent in 8th grade learning that monopolies are illegal and that our government would protect us from greedy men....

[✭ @ferupity]

You can see the republican taking over her body like venom

[cinnabon @katanacoded]

One girl broke up with you so “all women are the same” but 86 rape and molestation cases reported per day day but suddenly it’s “not all men”

[sammm ☆ @onlysammms]

girls will survive horrors beyond comprehension and still give love and light and keep it pushing but a man who had one fuckass breakup at 15 will make it his entire personality and be an asshole forever

[༺☆༻cin✩‧ @sleepingbvby]

dating me is like taking an edible. you don’t know when imma hit you

[disha @yzybby]

when i was a kid and first learned i could see beautiful kaleidoscope patterns by pressing on my closed eyeballs i knew substance abuse was going to be a big problem in my life

[goma @soigomaa]

We all get it now. Abortion bans = more unwanted children.More unwanted children = more children in foster care. More children in foster care = more children to easily abduct into s*x trafficking because they have no one to lookout for them. Starting to understand that "pro life" really means pro bringing vulnerable lives into the world for exploitation.