i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. Its crucial.
Ain't nothing "weird" about me. If you rub me the wrong way, im either doing two things.. speaking on it &/or removing myself & revoking your access to me. I don't move weird. It's very black & white w/ me. Ain't NO grey areas.
Stop dealing with people who have nobody in their life holding them accountable. Those type of people will do you wrong, justify it, and then gather a bunch of other unaccountable mfs to back them up. Next thing you know, you getting gaslit for reacting to THEIR behavior.
People act like you can’t just pick up new skills or live a new lifestyle. You can do whatever you want and you can change your mind about your habits and decisions at anytime. You’re the only one that needs that permission
in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.
I want to quit cussing, I want to tame my tongue & attitude, I want to save money better, I want to make better choices, I want to read my bible. Me & GOD really got a lot of work to do. ❤️🩹
You really have to get rid of that “missing out” mentality, if you want to make a change in your life. If you can’t lock in for 6-12 months, to make the necessary changes that’ll improve your life, then you’ll be remain stuck in the same cycle.