In both sides, you can't deny that there are a lot of factors of their actions whether it is internal, external, or from the past. There's no singular reason talaga.
their experience/s with having a partner or the lack of that experience, and their perception of themselves (this would include self-worth, self-esteem, self-compassion etc.)
i could go on pa into more details. my dm is open if anyone's up to talk about these kinds of topic. ☺️
tw // trauma , traumatic experiences
there's this somewhat infamous line sa amin na nagaaral ng psych that goes, "ang sagot sa lahat ng tanong ay 'depende'." cause it is usually a case to case basis. but para malaman, you'll have to look at the whole system of the people
if it's traumatic experiences, some of the big factors that would / might influence (based from experience and observation) would be: the person's perception of a relationship based from people around them (like their parents, r/s they saw in media),
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