"People are strange: they are constantly angered by trivial things, but on a major matter like totally wasting their lives, they hardly seem to notice." – Charles Bukowski
The 5-Minute Journal is simplicity itself and hits a lot of birds with one stone: 5 minutes in the morning of answering a few prompts, and then 5 minutes in the evening doing the same.
Each prompt has three lines for three answers.
To be answered in the morning:
I am grateful for . . .
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
What would make today great?
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
Daily affirmations.
I am . . .
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
To be filled in at night:
3 amazing things that happened today . . .
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
How could I have made today better?
1. __________
2. __________
3. __________
It’s easy to obsess over pushing the ball forward as a type-A personality, which leads to being constantly future-focused. If anxiety is a focus on the future, practicing appreciation, even for 2 to 3 minutes, is counter-balancing medicine.
The 5-Minute Journal forces me to think about what I have, as opposed to what I’m pursuing.
When you answer “I am grateful for . . . ,” I recommend considering four different categories. Otherwise, you will go on autopilot and repeat the same items day after day (e.g., “my healthy family,” “my loving dog,” etc.). I certainly did this, and it defeats the purpose.
What are you grateful for in the below four categories?
I ask myself this every morning as I fill out the 5MJ, and I pick my favorite three for that day:
An old relationship that really helped you, or that you valued highly.
An opportunity you have today. Perhaps that’s just an opportunity to call one of your parents, or an opportunity to go to work. It doesn’t have to be something large.
Something great that happened yesterday, whether you experienced or witnessed it.
Something simple near you or within sight.
The gratitude points shouldn’t all be “my career” and other abstract items. Temper those with something simple and concrete—a beautiful cloud outside the window, the coffee that you’re drinking, the pen that you’re using, or whatever it might be.
I use Intelligent Change’s bound 5-Minute Journal and suggest it for convenience, but you can practice in your own notebook.
It’s fun and good therapy to review your p.m. “amazing things” answers at least once a month.
“What an astonishing thing a book is.
It's a flat object made from a tree with flexible parts on which are imprinted lots of funny dark squiggles.
But one glance at it and you're inside the mind of another person, maybe somebody dead for thousands of years.
Across the millennia, an author is speaking clearly and silently inside your head, directly to you.
Writing is perhaps the greatest of human inventions, binding together people who never knew each other, citizens of distant epochs.
Books break the shackles of time.
A book is proof that humans are capable of working magic."
—Carl Sagan
His name is Pabrai, but we call him Uncle Chai
"Play the games you want to win
Set the scorecard you set within."
This is beyond excellent.
It's a mantra for a new generation of value investors.
“Every day we are engaged in a miracle which we don’t even recognize: a blue sky, white clouds, green leaves, the black, curious eyes of a child—our own two eyes. All is a miracle.”
— Thích Nhất Hạnh